Working on the Mindset

I know it probably seems like we’ve quit blogging, but we haven’t. I’m not here to talk about that though.

 

Lately I’ve been trying to work Narcissus back into a steady mindset of everything. Several things diminished when he got the piercing re-done. Both of us were really bummed about how the first one wasn’t right, but also really excited about the second one. However, since one of them was wrong, he constantly worried that the second one was also wrong. This is an understandable concern, and he’s always been a very cautious person when it comes to things being done right, and stuff not being damaged. So, of course, I got to inspect the piercing several times a day, for longer than I would have liked at times. I laugh about it now, but I was annoyed then. He still worries about it, especially after we have sex, but I am glad that his general fuss over it has diminished.

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