As planned, I went to Rhea’s house this weekend. In fact, I’m still here as I type this post. We had sex the first night, and even though we had to take it slow due to some tenderness still being in the area, it went just fine. I was surprised she could feel the jewelry, considering I’m still wearing the 12 gauge captive bead that the piercer used. She did feel it, though, and as I hoped, enjoyed it.

Today, however, I want to move to a different topic that’s having a larger presence in our relationship at the moment.

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There’s a few ways to practice chastity and orgasm denial. Some people use the honor system, some use a cage, and some just simply implement orgasm control into their relationship. Regardless, there’s always someone who is in control, whether it’s their partner, designated keyholder, or just their self.

For now, while this PA heals, the thing that holds key to my dick is time.

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Changing Your Mind

I was recently invited to join a group of other women who write and identify as dominant. Each month a new topic is picked and all the women write on this topic. I have decided I will be sharing my posts on the blog. If you’d like to learn more about this go here.

This month’s topic: Have you ever changed your mind about a kink? Thought you liked something and it turned out you didn’t? Thought you didn’t like something and it turned out you did? What do you think made you flip?

The topic was suggested by DommeLuck, and chosen by KWSW. Both write great blogs that you should also check out.

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Sizing Up

I haven’t been posting much, and neither has Rhea, but it’s not because we’ve had a lack of interest. Life’s been somewhat getting in the way. The last couple of weeks was pretty busy for her, and somewhat for me since I was helping her. We still made time for each other, however. I’ve even managed to get an orgasm in the midst of it all.

There’s one thing in particular that we’ve been focusing on within chastity, and that’s finally making the jump to a custom device.

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